It’s oddly comforting when he uses you then up and disappears. It stings at first, but soon you get what you suspected all along: he didn’t care; he never did. He hates women and he hates himself and you were nothing different from the 5000 other women he’s friends with on Facebook and who knows how many on every dating app. If you’re one of them, I’m sorry. I know nothing I say will convince you to let him go, so know eventually he’ll ditch you too, and his departure will leave you in cold comfort.